Love is a Verb


Valentine’s Day.  A day that you see all the couples you know posting sweet little notifications across social media.  I have seen more pictures of candy, food, babies, and couples spending time in the candle light today than I ever thought I would.  None of that is necessarily a bad thing either.  There is nothing wrong with wanting to show someone how much they mean to you, however, like almost all of the “major holidays” anymore, it seems to have become way too commercial.  It is all about how much money you can spend and the more you spend the more you care about the person you are spending on.

My wife and I got married on February 6, 2010, and when we set that date, knowing how close it was to Valentine’s Day, we made an agreement.  I cannot remember who’s idea it was, and really it doesn’t matter.  We agreed that with our anniversary being only a little over a week before Valentine’s Day, we would basically combine the two celebrations.  Even before we set our wedding date, we did not go out of our way to celebrate the holiday anyway.


Here is the way I look at it.  If I have to go all out one day a year just to prove to my wife that I love her because I have not shown her that love throughout the rest of the year, then I have not been the husband that I should be anyway.  Am I perfect at treating my wife well, and always showing her how much I love and care about her?  Absolutely not.  None of us are.  But again, if I look at it like I can just do something on one day of the year and then not have to worry about it again for another 365 days, I have failed in a big way.

Being a Christ follower is trying to live a life full of love; Love for fellow human beings and also a love for Jesus.  Showing our love to others is all about service.  Jesus says in John 13:13-17; 34, 35;

13 “You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am. 14 Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. 15 I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. 16 Very truly I tell you, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. 17 Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them… 34 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

We show our love for God by serving our fellow man.  Why?  Because that shows that we are trying to be Christ followers with the way that we live. 

But it can’t be just a one time thing.  Or a once a year thing.  It has to be a lifestyle of service.  Just like I cannot just take one day a year to try to prove my love and care for my wife, we cannot just assume that one act of service is enough to show how much we love Jesus and our fellow man either.  I am not talking about earning the love of Jesus.  That is something that is freely given.  But we should be progressing through our relationship with Jesus in such a way that it produces the works of service in our lives.

If you are a Christ follower, then you should be finding ways to serve God and others in your daily lives.  There is nothing wrong with a big service project like a mission trip, but what are you doing in your neighborhood?  How are you showing what God has done in your lives to those that you are around on a daily basis?  I think we all have room for improvement, and will until the day that we get to see Jesus.  Don’t get down on yourself if you mess up, but let’s all find ways that we can serve one another and show the love of Christ in our lives!


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