Worship (Spiritual Disciplines Study)

Corporate Disciplines


  • God is actively seeking worshippers.
    • John 4:23
      • 23 But an hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in Spirit and in truth. Yes, the Father wants such people to worship him.
    • It is God who seeks, draws, persuades. Worship is the human response to the divine initiative.
    • In Genesis God walked in the garden, seeking out Adam and Eve. In the crucifixion Jesus drew men and women to himself. 
    • Scripture is replete with examples of God’s efforts to initiate, restore, and maintain fellowship with his children. God is like the father of the prodigal who upon seeing his son a long way off, rushed to welcome him home.
    • Singing, praying, praising all may lead to worship, but worship is more than any of them. Our spirit must be ignited by the divine fire.
    • Nowhere does the NT prescribe a particular form for worship. In fact, what we find is a freedom that is incredible for people with such deep roots in the synagogue liturgical system. They had the reality. When Spirit touches spirit the issue of forms is wholly secondary.
    • We are free in Christ to use whatever forms will enhance our worship, and if any form hinders us from experiencing the living Christ—too bad for that form.
  • The Object of Our Worship
    • Matthew 4:10
      • 10 Then Jesus told him, “Go away, Satan! For it is written: Worship the Lord your God, and serve only him.”
    • God made clear his hatred for all idolatries by placing an incisive command at the start of the 10 Commandments
      • Exodus 20:3
        • 3 Do not have other gods besides me.
    • Nor does idolatry consist only in bowing before visible objects of adoration.
    • A.W. Tozer
      • The essence of idolatry is the entertainment of thoughts about God that are unworthy of Him.
    • We desperately need to see who God is: to read about his self-disclosure to his ancient people Israel, to meditate on hi attributes, to gaze upon the revelation of his nature in Jesus Christ.
    • To see who the Lord is brings us to confession.
      • Isaiah 6:5
        • 5 Then I said: Woe is me for I am ruined because I am a man of unclean lips and live among a people of unclean lips, and because my eyes have seen the King, the Lord of Armies.
      • The pervasive sinfulness of human beings becomes evident when contrasted with the radiant holiness of God. Our fickleness becomes apparent once we see God’s faithfulness. To understand his grace is to understand our guilt
    • We praise God for who he is, and thank him for what he has done.
  • The Priority of Worship
    • If the Lord is to be Lord, worship must have priority in our lives
      • Mark 12:30
        • 30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.
    • Our lives are to be punctuated with praise, thanksgiving, and adoration. 
    • One grave temptation we all face is to run around answering calls to service without ministering to the Lord himself 
    • It is as if God is saying, “I want the hears of my people back!” And if we long to go where God is going and do what God is doing, we will move into deeper, more authentic worship.
  • Preparation for Worship
    • The early Church gathered with anticipation, knowing that Christ was present among them and would teach them and touch them with his living power. 
    • How do we cultivate this holy expectancy?
      • While living out the demands of our day we are filled with inward worship and adoration. We work and play and eat and sleep, yet we are listening, ever listening, to our Teacher
      • Brother Lawrence 
        • I cannot imagine how religious persons can live satisfied without the practice of the Presence of God.
      • When more than one or tow come into public worship with a holy expectancy, it can change the atmosphere of a room. 
      • Another vital feature of the early Christian community was their sense of being “gathered” together in worship. First, they were gathered in the sense that they actually met as a group, and second, as they met, they were gathered into a unity of spirit that transcended their individualism.
    • In contrast to the religions of the East, the Christian faith has strongly emphasized corporate worship. Even under highly dangerous circumstances the early community was urged not to forsake the assembling of themselves together.
      • Martin Luther
        • At home, in my own house, there is no warmth or vigor in me, but in the church when the multitude is gathered together, a fire is kindled in my heart and it breaks its way through
    • When we are truly gathered into worship, things occur that could never occur alone. There is the psychology of the group to be sure, and yet is it so much more; it is divine interpenetration. There is what the biblical writers called koinonia, deep inward fellowship in the power of the Spirit.
  • The Leader of Worship
    • Jesus Christ
    • George Fox
      • Meet together in the Name of Jesus…he is your Prophet, your Shepherd, your Bishop, your Priest, in the midst of you, to open you, and to sanctify you, and to feed you with Life, and to quicken you with Life.
    • Some are called to lead
      • This is the reason for the leadership gifts of the Spirit in Ephesians 4.
      • Worship leaders who are called out by God must not be shy about their leadership. People need to be led into worship: from the Other Court to the Inner Court and finally into the Holy of Holies. God anoints leaders to bring people through this progression into worship
  • Avenues into worship
    • Communing with God daily (in all aspects of your life)
    • Like a child taking first steps we are learning through success and failure, confident that we have a present Teacher who, through the Holy Spirit will guide us into all truth. In this way we come to understand what Paul means when he instructs us to…
      • Romans 8:4
        • 4 in order that the law’s requirement would be fulfilled in us who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit.
    • Praise is another avenue into worship
      • The Psalms are the literature of worship and their most prominent feature is praise
    • Scripture urges us to…
      • Hebrews 13:15
        • 15 Therefore, through him let us continually offer up to God a sacrifice of praise, that is, the fruit of lips that confess his name.
      • Peter and John left the Sanhedrin with bleeding backs and praising lips. Paul and Silas filled the Philippian jail  with their songs of praise. In each case they were offering the sacrifice of praise.
    • Singing is meant to move us into praise
      • It provides a medium for the expression of emotion. Through music we express our joy, out thanksgiving.
    • It is clear that God calls for wholehearted worship. And it is as reasonable to expect wholehearted worship to be physical as to expect it to be cerebral
      • Of course people have different temperaments, but that must never keep us from worshipping with our whole being.
      • Having said this, I must add that the physical response to worship is never to be manipulated in any way.
  • Steps into worship
    • Worship is something we do. Studying the theology of worship and debating the forms of worship are all good, but by themselves they are inadequate. We learn to worship by worshipping.
    • Learn to practice the presence of God daily
      • “Pray without ceasing” I Thessalonians 5:17
    • Have many different experiences of worship
    • Find ways to really prepare for the gathered experience of worship.
    • Have a willingness to be gathered in the power of the Lord.
      • As an individual I must learn to let go of my agenda, of my concern, of my being blessed, of my hearing the word of God.
      • Become of one mind, of one accord.
    • Cultivate holy dependency
      • You are utterly and completely dependent upon God for anything significant to happen.
    • Absorb distractions with gratitude
    • Learn to offer a sacrifice of worship
      • Show up and worship, even when you don’t feel like it.
      • One log by itself cannot burn for very long, but when many logs are put together, even if they are poor logs, they can make quite a fire.
  • The Fruits of Worship
    • Just as worship begins in holy expectancy, it ends in holy obedience. If worship does not propel us into greater obedience, it has not been worship
    • To worship is to change
    • Willard Sperry
      • Worship is a deliberate and disciplined adventure in reality.
    • It is not for the timid or comfortable. It involves an opening of ourselves to the adventurous life of the Spirit. It makes all the religious paraphernalia of temples and priests and rites and ceremonies irrelevant.
    • Colossians 3:16
      • 16 Let the word of Christ dwell richly among you, in all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another through psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts.

Confession (Spiritual Discipline Study)

Corporate Disciplines


  • Corporate Disciplines
    • Simply put, these are disciplines that we practice in community with other Christ followers. Unlike inward disciplines that we practice alone, and outward disciplines that can be more public, but are still individual, these are public and communal disciplines
  • Confession
    • “The confession of evil works is the first beginning of good works” Augustine of Hippo
    • Confession starts with the Cross
    • Love, not anger brought Jesus to the cross. Golgotha came as a result of God’s great desire to forgive, not his reluctance.
      • Mark 15:34
        • 34 And at three Jesus cried out with a loud voice, “Eloi, Eloi, lemá sabachtháni?” which is translated, “My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?”
      • Was not a moment of weakness. This was a moment of greatest triumph. 
      • II Corinthians 5:21
        • 21 He made the one who did not know sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.
      • Jesus succeeded in taking into himself all the dark powers of this present evil age and defeated every one of them by the light of His presence. He accomplished such a total identification with the sin of the race that he experienced the abandonment of God. Only in that way could he redeem sin. It was indeed his moment of greatest triumph.
      • Without the cross the discipline of confession would be only psychologically therapeutic. But it is so much more. It involves an objective change in our relationship with God and a subjective change in us. It is a means of healing and transforming the inner spirit.
      • Philippians 2:12
        • 12 Therefore, my dear friends, just as you have always obeyed, so now, not only in my presence but even more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.
      • The discipline of confession helps the believer to grow into “maturity with a stature measured by Christ’s fullness” (Eph. 4:13
      • Confessions is  a consciously chosen course of action that brings us under the shadow of the Almighty.
  • How is it that confession is listed under the corporate disciplines?
    • I Timothy 2:5
      • 5 For there is one God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus,
      • We confess directly to God through Christ
    • James 5:16
      • 16 Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is very powerful in its effect.
      • But we also are called to confess to one another
    • Confession is a difficult discipline for us because we all too often view the believing community as a fellowship of saints before we see it as a fellowship of sinners. We feel that everyone else has advanced so far into holiness that we are isolated and alone in our sins. Therefore, we hide ourselves from one another and live in veiled lies and hypocrisy
    • But if we know that the people of God are first a fellowship of sinners, we are freed to hear the unconditional call of God’s love and to confess our needs openly before our brothers and sisters. We are sinners together. In acts of mutual confession we release the power that heals. Our humanity is no longer denied, but transformed.
  • Authority to Forgive
    • John 20:23
      • 23 If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven them; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained.”
    • God has given us our brothers and sisters to stand in Christ’s stead and make God’s presence and forgiveness real to us.
      • I Peter 2:9
        • 9 But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his possession, so that you may proclaim the praises of the one who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.
      • The universal priesthood of all believers
        • We are all called to be on mission of telling others about Jesus, and we are called to living in community with one another. This includes confessing to one another and helping each other through the consequences of our sin
    • Dietrich Bonhoeffer
      • A man who confesses his sins in the presence of a brother knows that he is no longer alone with himself; he experiences the presence of God in the reality of the other person. As long as I am by myself in the confession of my sins everything remains in the dark, but in the presence of a brother the sin has to be brought into the light.
    • I John 1:9
      •  9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
  • Making a confession
    • St. Alphonsus Liguori
      • For a good confession three tings are necessary: and examination of conscience, poor, and a determination to avoid sin.
    • An examination of conscience
      • A generalized confession may save us from humiliation and same, but it will not ignite inner healing. The people who came to Jesus came with obvious, specific sins, and they were forgiven for one.
    • Sorrow
      • It is necessary to a good confession
      • Sorrow is a way of taking the confession seriously
    • A determination to avoid sin
      • John Wesley
        • Give me one hundred preachers who fear nothing but sin and desire nothing but God…such alone will shake the gates of hell and set up the kingdom of heaven on earth.
      • We must desire to be conquered and ruled by God, or if we do not desire it, to desire to desire it. Such a desire is a gracious gift from God. The seeking of this gift is one of the preliminaries for confessing to a brother or sister.
      • It is God who is working to make us willing to seek His forgiveness
    • One further note on the preparation for confession; there must be a definite termination point in the self-examination process. Otherwise, we can easily fall into a permanent habit of self-condemnation. Confession begins in sorrow, but it ends in joy. There is celebration in the forgiveness of sins because it results in a genuinely changed life.
  • Who to confess to
    • The key qualifications are spiritual maturity, wisdom, compassion, good common sense, the ability to keep a confidence, and a wholesome sense of humor.
    • Many ministers—though by no means all—can serve in this way
    • Often ordinary folk who hold no office or title whatever are among the best at receiving a confession.
  • Being someone people can confess to
    • Dietrich Bonhoeffer
      • Anybody who lives beneath the Cross and who has discerned in the Cross of Jesus the utter wickedness of all men and of his own heart will find there is no sin that can ever be alien to him. Anybody who has once been horrified by the dreadfulness of his own sin that nailed Jesus to the Cross will no longer be horrified by even the rankest sins of a brother.
    • Once we see the awfulness of sin we know that, regardless of what others have done, we ourselves are the chief of sinners.
    • Therefore, there is nothing that anyone can say that will disturb us. Nothing. By living under the cross we can hear the worst possibly things from the best possible people without so much as batting an eyelash.
    • It is important that wen others are opening their griefs to us we discipline ourselves to be quiet. We will be tempted Beverly to relieve the tension of the situation by some offhanded comment. This is very distracting and even destructive to the sacredness of the moment. Neither should we try to pry out more details than are necessary. If we feel that out of embarrassment or fear they are holding something back, the best method is to wait silently and prayerfully.
    • It is extremely important that you pray for the person and not just counsel with them. Before or during the prayer we should announce to them that the forgiveness that is in Jesus Christ is now real and effective for them. We can say this in words and tones of genuine authority for we have all of heaven behind the absolution. (John 20:22, 23)
  • Honesty leads to confession, and confession leads to change. May God give grace  to the Church once again to recover the discipline of confession.

Service (Spiritual Discipline Study)

Outward Disciplines


  • As the cross is the sign of submission, so the towel is the sign of service
  • Service banishes us to the mundane, the ordinary, the trivial
  • The point is not that we are to do away with all sense of leadership or authority. Any sociologist would quickly demonstrate the impossibility of such a task. Even among Jesus and the disciples, leadership and authority are seen easily. The point is that Jesus completely redefined leadership and rearranged the lines of authority.
  • Jesus never taught that everyone had equal authority. In fact, he had a great deal to say about genuine spiritual authority and taught that many did not possess it. But the authority of which Jesus spoke is not the authority fo the pecking order.
  • We must clearly understand the radical nature of Jesus’ teaching on this matter. He was not just reversion the “pecking order” as many suppose. He was abolishing it. The authority of which he spoke was not an authority to manipulate and control. It was an authority of function, not of status
    • Matthew 20:20-28
      • 20 Then the mother of Zebedee’s sons approached him with her sons. She knelt down to ask him for something. 21 “What do you want?” he asked her “Promise,” she said to him, “that these two sons of mine may sit, one on your right and the other on your left, in your kingdom.” 22 Jesus answered, “You don’t know what you’re asking. Are you able to drink the cup that I am about to drink?” “We are able,” they said to him. 23 He told them, “You will indeed drink my cup, but to sit at my right and left is not mine to give; instead, it is for those for whom it has been prepared by my Father.” 24 When the ten disciples heard this, they became indignant with the two brothers. 25 Jesus called them over and said, “You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and those in high positions act as tyrants over them. 26 It must not be like that among you. On the contrary, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, 27 and whoever wants to be first among you must be your slave; 28 just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
    • The spiritual authority of Jesus is an authority not found in a position or a title, but in a towel.
  • Self-righteous verses true service
    • Self-righteous service come through human effort
    • Self-righteous service is impressed with the “big deal”
    • Self-righteous service requires external rewards
    • Self-righteous service is highly concerned about results
    • Self-righteous service picks and chooses whom to serve
    • Self-righteous service is affected by moods and whims
    • Self-righteous service is insensitive. I insists on meeting the need even when to do so would be destructive
    • Self-righteous service fractures community
    • True service comes from a relationship with the divine Other deep inside
    • True service finds it almost impossible to distinguish the small from the large service
    • True service resets contented in hiddenness. It does not fear the lights and blare of attention, but it does not seek them either
    • True service is free of the need to calculate results
    • True service is indiscriminate in its ministry.
    • True service ministers simply and faithfully because there is a need
    • True service can withhold the service as freely as perform it
    • True service builds community
  • Service and Humility go hand in hand
    • Submission, as we stated last week, requires humbleness. 
    • Service builds humility.
    • Nothing disciplines the inordinate desires of the flesh like service, and nothing transforms the desires of the flesh like serving in hiddenness. The flesh whines against service but screams against hidden service. It strains and pulls for honor and recognition.
      • I John 2:15-17
        • 15 Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16 For everything in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride in one’s possessions—is not from the Father, but is from the world. 17 And the world with its lust is passing away, but the one who does the will of God remains forever.
    • The “lust of the flesh” refers to the failure to discipline the natural human passions. 
    • C.H. Dodd says that the “lust of the eyes” refers to “the tendency to be captivated by outward show.” He defines the “pride of life” as “pretentious egotism.”
    • In each case the same thins is seen: infatuation with natural human powers and abilities without any dependence upon God. That is the fleshing operation, and the flesh is the deadly enemy of humility.
    • The result of this daily discipline of the flesh will be the rise of the grace of humility. It will slip in upon us unawares
  • A natural and understandable hesitancy accompanies any serious discussion of service, because we fear that “If I do that, people will take advantage of me; they will walk all over me.”
    • But when we choose to be a servant, we give up the right to be in charge. There is great freedom in this. If we voluntarily choose to be taken advantage of, then we cannot be manipulated. When we choose to be a servant, we surrender the right to decide who and when we will serve. We become available and vulnerable.
  • Service in todays world
    • There is service in the small things
      • Acts 9:39
        • 39 Peter got up and went with them. When he arrived, they led him to the room upstairs. And all the widows approached him, weeping and showing him the robes and clothes that Dorcas had made while she was with them.
      • Dorcas served by making clothes for people
      • Francis de Sales
        • The great virtues and the small fidelities are like sugar and salt. Sugar may have a more exquisite taste, but its use is less frequent. Salt is found everywhere. The great virtues are a rare occurrence; the ministry of small things is a daily service. Large tasks require great sacrifice for a moment; small things require constant sacrifice.
      • There is the service of guarding the reputation of others.
        • Titus 3:1-3
          • Remind them to submit to rulers and authorities, to obey, to be ready for every good work, 2 to slander no one, to avoid fighting, and to be kind, always showing gentleness to all people. 3 For we too were once foolish, disobedient, deceived, enslaved by various passions and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful, detesting one another.
      • There is the service of being served.
        • Peter refused to be served by Jesus washing his feet.
        • In reality it was an act of veiled pride. If Peter had been the master, he would not have washed feet
        • It is an act of submission and service to allow others to serve us.
      • There is the service of common courtesy
        • Missionaries understand the value of courtesy. They would not dare to blunder into some village demanding to be heard without first going through the appropriate rituals of introduction and acquaintanceship. Yet we feel we can violate these rituals in our own culture and still be received and heard. And we wonder why no one will listen.
        • Once we get over our egocentric arrogance about the fact that people don’t really want to know how we are when they say, “How are you?” We can see that it is just an American way of acknowledging our presence.
      • There is the service of hospitality.
        • I Peter 4:9
          •  Be hospitable to one another without complaining.
      • There is the service of listening
      • There is the service of bearing the burden of each other
        • Galatians 6:2
          • 2 Carry one another’s burdens; in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.
        • Love is most perfectly fulfilled when we bear the hurts and sufferings of each other, week pin with those who weep.
      • There is the service of sharing the word of Life with one another
  • John 13:3-17
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Submission (Spiritual Disciplines Studay)

  1. Quotes about submission
    1. A.“A Christian is a perfectly free lord of all, subject to none.  A Christian is a perfectly dutiful servant of all, subject to all.” –Martin Luther
    2. B.“Make me a captive, Lord,
      And then I shall be free;
      Force me to render up my sword,
      And I shall conqueror be.
      I sink in life’s alarms
      When by myself I stand;
      Imprison me within Thine arms,
      And strong shall be my hand.”–George Matheson
    3. C.“To have no opinion of ourselves, and to think always well and highly of others, is great wisdom and perfection.”–Thomas a Kempis
  2. II.Submission: a mostly ignored or abused discipline
    1. A.“Most of us have been exposed to such a mutilated form of biblical submission that either we have embraced the deformity or we have rejected the discipline altogether.  To do the former leads to self-hatred; to do the latter leads to self-glorification.”–Richard Foster
    2. B.With this being an outward discipline, there is a danger in faking it as well
      1. 1.I Peter 2:18; “Slaves, in reverent fear of God submit yourselves to your masters, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are harsh.” Why would Peter need to address slaves and tell them to submit?
      2. 2.Because we can outwardly act in submission but have a spirit of rebellion; and this is not true submission
    3. C.The third option is to find the true meaning of biblical submission and embrace it
      1. 1.Mark 8:34: “Then he called the crowd to him along with his disciples and said: ‘Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.’”  Jesus tells us that to truly become a disciple, we must submit to him and deny himself.
      2. 2.In submission we are at last free to value other people.  Their dreams and plans become important to us.
      3. 3.Self-denial is something we draw back from.  We are more comfortable with self-fulfillment and self-actualization, but “In reality, Jesus’ teaching on self-denial is the only thing that will bring genuine self-fulfillment and self-actualization.”
    4. D.Self-denial does not mean the loss of our identity
      1. 1.Jesus, Paul and Peter did not lose their identity in self-denial; They found their identity in the act of self-denial. (Jesus and the cross, Peter and Jesus’ command to follow me and Paul and his obedience to Jesus’ command “I will show him how much he must suffer for the sake of my name” (Acts 9:16)
      2. 2.Self-denial is not the same thing as self-contempt.  Self-contempt claims that we have no worth, and even if we do have worth, we should reject it.  Self-denial declares that we are of infinite worth and shows us how to realize it.
        1. a)Matthew 22:39; “Love your neighbor as yourself”
        2. b)Matthew 10:39; “Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it.”
  3. III.Why Submission?
    1. A.Because Jesus commanded it and lived it as an example
      1. 1.Philippians 2:8 “And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross!”
      2. 2.But note this; Christ not only died a cross-death, he lived a cross-life
      3. 3.He took women and children seriously in a society that did not
      4. 4.Matthew 23:8-10; “But you are not to be called ‘Rabbi,’ for you have one Teacher, and you are all brothers. And do not call anyone on earth ‘father,’ for you have one Father, and he is in heaven. Nor are you to be called instructors, for you have one Instructor, the Messiah.”
      5. 5.Mark 9:35; “…Anyone who wants to be first must be the very last, and the servant of all.”
      6. 6.After washing his disciples feet…John 13:15; “I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you.”  The cross-life is the life of voluntary submission.  The cross-life is the life of freely accepted servanthood.
    2. B.It is a concept taught heavily in the New Testament Letters
      1. 1.The book of Philemon
      2. 2.I Peter 2:21-23; “To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps.  He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth.  When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly.”
      3. 3.Ephesians 5:21; “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”
      4. 4.It is a posture obligatory upon all Christians:  men as well as women, fathers as well as children, masters as well as slaves.  We are commanded to live a life of submission because Jesus lived a life of submission, not because we are in a particular place or station in life.  Self-denial is a posture fitting for all those who follow the crucified Lord.
  4. IV.What this means for us
    1. A.Colossians 3:18-22; “Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.  Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.  Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.  Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged.  Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything; and do it, not only when their eye is on you and to curry their favor, but with sincerity of heart and reverence for the Lord.
      1. 1.For a first-century husband, father or master to obey Paul’s injunction would make a dramatic difference in his behavior.  The first-century wife, child or slave would not need to change one whit to follow Paul’s command.  If anything, the sting of the teaching falls upon the dominant partner.
      2. 2.Look at page 119
      3. 3.The Epistles did not consecrate the existing hierarchical social structure.  By making the command to subordination universal they relativized and undercut it.  They called for Christians to live as citizens of a new order, and the most fundamental feature of this new order is universal subordination.
    2. B.Limits of Submission
      1. 1.The limits of submission are at the points at which it becomes destructive…They simply understood that submission reaches the end of its tether when it becomes destructive….120-121
    3. C.The Acts of Submission
      1. 1.God
      2. 2.Scripture
      3. 3.Family
      4. 4.Neighbors
      5. 5.Faith Family
      6. 6.Broken and Despised
      7. 7.World

Solitude (Spiritual Discipline Study)

Outward Disciplines


  • Solitude, in this sense is not just about getting off by yourself.  It is all about spending time listening for God.  
  • In this way, I feel that it is attached to meditation that we talked about before, although for solitude, it’s not necessary to be meditating on the word of God, which is what meditation is all about.  Solitude is all about quietening out lives and trying to hear God’s voice.  It’s reevaluating where we are at, and where we think we should be going.
  • The problem is, we live in a society that makes it hard to quiet everything down. With technology as abundant as it is, and how tied to it most of us are, solitude becomes difficult.  
  • I’m not suggesting that we live in complete solitude all the time.  We are built to live in community.  I don’t believe the Christian life can truly be lived in complete solitude.  I’m not even suggesting that we participate in solitude on a weekly or monthly basis.  
  • It is something that we should try to practice three or four times a year, to refocus our lives, and listen for God’s instruction.  We do that through meditation, study, and prayer, but this is on another level.  
  • We can cultivate an inner solitude and silence that sets us free from loneliness and fear. Loneliness is inner emptiness. Solitude is inner fulfillment.
  • Dietrich Bonhoeffer
    • “Let him who cannot be alone beware of community…Let him who is not in community beware of being alone…Each by itself has profound pitfalls and perils. One who wants fellowship without solitude plunges into the void of words and feelings, and one who seeks solitude without fellowship perishes in the abyss of vanity, self-infatuation, and despair.
  • We must seek out the recreating stillness of solitude we want to be with others meaningfully. We must seek the fellowship and accountability of others if we want to be alone safely. We must cultivate both if we are to live in obedience.
  • Jesus and solitude
    • 40 days in the desert before His public ministry started
    • Matthew 14:13 (after the death of John the Baptist)
      • 13 When Jesus heard about it, he withdrew from there by boat to a remote place to be alone. When the crowds heard this, they followed him on foot from the towns.
    • Matthew 14:23 (after feeding the 5,000)
      • 23 After dismissing the crowds, he went up on the mountain by himself to pray. Well into the night, he was there alone.
    • Mark 6:30-31 (after the disciples returned from doing ministry on their own)
      • 30 The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to him all that they had done and taught. 31 He said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a remote place and rest for a while.” For many people were coming and going, and they did not even have time to eat.
    • Many other examples throughout the gospels
  • Solitude is connected with Silence (one and the same)
    • The purpose of silence and solitude is to be able to see and hear. Control rather than no noise is the key to silence.
      • James 3:1-12
        • Not many should become teachers, my brothers, because you know that we will receive a stricter judgment. 2 For we all stumble in many ways. If anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is mature, able also to control the whole body. 3 Now if we put bits into the mouths of horses so that they obey us, we direct their whole bodies. 4 And consider ships: Though very large and driven by fierce winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. 5 So too, though the tongue is a small part of the body, it boasts great things. Consider how a small fire sets ablaze a large forest. 6 And the tongue is a fire. The tongue, a world of unrighteousness, is placed among our members. It stains the whole body, sets the course of life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. 7 Every kind of animal, bird, reptile, and fish is tamed and has been tamed by humankind, 8 but no one can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. 9 With the tongue we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in God’s likeness. 10 Blessing and cursing come out of the same mouth. My brothers and sisters, these things should not be this way. 11 Does a spring pour out sweet and bitter water from the same opening? 12 Can a fig tree produce olives, my brothers and sisters, or a grapevine produce figs? Neither can a saltwater spring yield fresh water.
      • Under the discipline of solitude and silence we learn when to speak and when to refrain from speaking
        • The person who views the Disciplines as laws will always turn silence into an absurdity: “I’ll not speak for the next forty days!”
        • This is always a severe temptation to any true disciple who wants to live under silence and solitude
        • Control is Key!
        • The disciplined person is the person who can do what needs to be done when it needs to be done
        • A person who is under the discipline of silence is a person who can say what needs to be said when it needs to be said
        • If we are silent when we should speak, we are not living in the discipline of silence. If we speak when we should be silent, we again miss the mark.
        • One reason we can hardly bear to remain silent is that it makes us feel so helpless. We are so accustomed to relying upon words to manage and control others. If we are silent, who will take control? God will take control, but we will never let him take control until we trust him. Silence is intimately related to trust.
        • The tongue is a thermometer; it gives us our spiritual temperature. It is also a thermostat; it regulates our spiritual temperature. Control of the tongue can mean everything. Have we been set free so that we can hold our tongue?
          • Bonhoeffer 
            • “Real silence, real stillness, really holding one’s tongue comes only as the sober consequence of spiritual stillness.”
      • Steps into Solitude
        • What are some steps into solitude? The first thing we can do is to take advantage of the “little solitudes” that fill our day. Consider the solitude of these early morning moments in bed before the family awakens. Think of the solitude of a morning cup of coffee before beginning the work of the day. There can be little moments of rest and refreshment when we turn a corner and see a flower or a tree. Instead of vocal prayer before a meal consider inviting everyone to join into a few moments of gather silence
        • Develop a quiet place designed for silence and solitude.
        • For me, golf sometimes is about fellowship with others, sometimes trying to meet new people in the community, and then there are times where is is my solitude.
        • Riding a motorcycle
        • Fishing
        • Etc.
  • Let me just give you a few paragraphs from Foster on this discipline.  I don’t know how else to explain it.
    • Let’s discipline ourselves so that our words are few and full.  Let’s become known as people who have something to say when we speak.  Let’s maintain plain speech: do what we say we will do. “It is better that you should not vow than that you should vow and not pay” (Eccles. 5:5).  
    • When our tongue is under our authority the words of Dietrich Bonhoeffer become true of us: “Much that is unnecessary remains unsaid.  But the essential and the helpful thing can be said in a few words.”  
    • Go another step.  Try to live one entire day without words at all.  Do it not as law, but as an experiment.  Note your feelings of helplessness and excessive dependence upon words to communicate.  Try to find new ways to relate to others that are not dependent upon words.  Enjoy, savor the day.  Learn from it.  
    • Four times a year withdraw for three or four hours for the purpose of reorienting your life goals.  This can easily be done in one evening…What do you want to have accomplished one year from now?  Ten years from now?…Don’t you feel a tug, a yearning to sink down into the silence and solitude of God?  Don’t you long for something more?  Doesn’t every breath crave a deeper, fuller exposure to His presence?
  • Solitude is another one of these that we just have to try to practice.  I don’t feel like you can really learn it from a book or a sermon.  You can get the starting point, but really doing it is the only way to truly learn it.  But it is something that is vital at times to help us recalibrate and find that still small voice of God in an overly loud society that wants to keep us busy.

Simplicity (Spiritual Disciplines Study)

Wednesday, April 13, 2022

Outward Disciplines


  • What do we mean by outward disciplines?  These are disciplines that are designed to be done in a public way, unlike the inward disciplines we’ve already discussed.  Again, it’s not about doing things in a “look at me and my righteousness” kind of way, but these are done in a public setting for the most part.  Others can see you serve, although there is something to be said about serving in secret where no one knows who has done what has been done.  You spending time is solitude is something that others could pick up on.  It can become evident in your life.  Living a life of simplicity is definitely something that can be seen.  And submitting to others in a biblical way is something that is seen when one knows what to look for.  So let’s jump right in to our study.
  • Simplicity is freedom, duplicity is bondage. Simplicity brings joy and balance. Duplicity brings anxiety and fear.
  • The Christian Discipline of simplicity is an inward reality that results in an outward life-style. Bot the inward and the outward aspects of simplicity are essential. We deceive ourselves if we believe we can possess the inward reality without its having a profound effect on how we live.
  • To attempt to arrange a outward life style of simplicity without the inward reality leads to deadly legalism
  • Experiencing the inward reality liberates us outwardly. Speech becomes truthful and honest. The lust for status and position is gone because we no longer need status and position. We cease from showy extravagance not non the grounds of being unable to afford it, but on the grounds of principle. Our goods become available to others.
  • We really must understand that the lust for affluence in contemporary society is psychotic. It is psychotic because it has completely lost touch with reality. We crave things we neither need nor enjoy. We buy things we do not want to impress people we do not like.
    • Atlanta Braves Ring 
  • It is time we awaken to the fact that conformity to a sick society is to be sick.
    • The psychosis permeates eve our mythology. The modern hero is the poor boy who purposefully becomes rich rather than the rich boy who voluntarily becomes poor. (We still find it hard to imagine that a girl could do either!) Covetousness we call ambition. Hoarding we call prudences. Greed we call industry.
    • Courageously, we need to articulate new, more human ways to live. We should take exception to the modern psychosis that defines people by how much they can produce or what they earn. We should experiment with bold new alternatives to the present death-giving system. The Spiritual Discipline of simplicity is not a lost dream, but a recurrent vision throughout history. It can be recaptured today. It must be.
  • Simplicity in the Bible
    • We live in a society today that is anything but simplistic.  After studying this discipline, I want to point out something from the start.  This is such a complex subject in a lot of ways that we could spend multiple weeks on it.  So I’m going to try to hit the highlights of this discipline.  This is not a very popular subject in our culture either.  Another thing I don’t want you to misunderstand here, is that I am not trying to say, in any way, that we all need to get rid of everything we own and live in complete poverty.  That is not what this discipline is all about.  But Jesus does speak about economics more than any other social issue.  So, what are we talking about then?
      • Matthew 6:19-21; 24-34
        • 19 “Don’t store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal. 20 But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves don’t break in and steal. 21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also…24 “No one can serve two masters, since either he will hate one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money. 25 “Therefore I tell you: Don’t worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Isn’t life more than food and the body more than clothing? 26 Consider the birds of the sky: They don’t sow or reap or gather into barns, yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren’t you worth more than they? 27 Can any of you add one moment to his life span by worrying? 28 And why do you worry about clothes Observe how the wildflowers of the field grow: They don’t labor or spin thread. 29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was adorned like one of these. 30 If that’s how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and thrown into the furnace tomorrow, won’t he do much more for you—you of little faith? 31 So don’t worry, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear?’ 32 For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be provided for you. 34 Therefore don’t worry about tomorrow, because tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
      • Simplicity is all about seeking His Kingdom and His righteousness first and foremost in our lives.
    • This life is not all about gaining wealth.  It’s about seeking His kingdom.  We don’t actually own anything, everything is already God’s.  He just allows us to use it.  Again, this is not an attempt saying that we need to sale everything and live in poverty.  But we can’t put our hopes in what we have.  Our hope is in Jesus.  When we get that backwards is when we mess up.  Philippians 4:13 speaks to this issue as well.  It’s a familiar verse that is used in a lot of ways to say that we can do all things in Christ.  I believe that that is true, but I fear that we use this verse out of context a lot.  So let’s back up a few verses.
      • Philippians 4:10-13
        • 10 I rejoiced in the Lord greatly because once again you renewed your care for me. You were, in fact, concerned about me but lacked the opportunity to show it. 11 I don’t say this out of need, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I find myself. 12 I know how to make do with little, and I know how to make do with a lot. In any and all circumstances I have learned the secret of being content—whether well fed or hungry, whether in abundance or in need. 13 I am able to do all things through him who strengthens me
    • Simplicity, in a lot of ways, is learning to be content.  It’s about seeking God over everything that gets in our way to God.
    • Simplicity sets us free to receive the provision of God as a gift that is not ours to keep and can be freely shared with others. Once we recognize that the Bible denounces the materialist and the ascetic with equal vigor, we are prepared to turn our attention to the framing of a Christian understanding of simplicity.
  • The central point for the discipline of simplicity is to seek the kingdom of God and the righteousness of His kingdom first and then everything necessary will come in its proper order.
    • Nothing must come before the kingdom of God, including the desire for a simple life-style
    • Focus upon the kingdom produces the inward reality, and without the inward reality we will degenerate into legalistic trivia. Nothing else can be central. The desire to get out of the rat race cannot be central. The redistribution of the world’s wealth cannot be central, the concern for the ecology cannot be central. Seeking first God’s Kingdom and the righteousness, both personal and social, of that kingdom is the only thing that can be central in the spiritual discipline of simplicity.
    • When the kingdom of Gd is genuinely placed first, ecological concerns, the poor, the equitable distribution of wealth, and many other things will be given their proper attention.
  • Freedom from anxiety is characterized by three inner attitudes.
    • If what we have we receive as a gift, and if what we have is to be cared for by God, and if what we have is available to others, then we will possess freedom from anxiety.  This is the inward reality of simplicity
      • When we are tempted to think that what we own is the result of our personal efforts, it take only a little drought or a small accident to show us once again how utterly dependent we are for every thing.
    • To know that it is God’s business, and not ours, to care for what we have is the second inner attitude of simplicity.
      • Yes, we can lock our doors and take precautions
      • There is simply no such thing as “burglar proof” precaution. Obviously, these matters are not restricted to possessions but include such things as our reputation and our employment.  Simplicity means the freedom to trust God for these (and all) things.
    • To have our goods available to others marks the third inner attitude of simplicity.
  • Simplicity is freedom, not slavery.  Refuse to be a slave to anything but God.
    • For the name simplicity, there is a lot that goes into this.  But I hope that gives you a little taste of what we are talking about.  I highly recommend you do some deeper study on this subject, because it is not one that you will hear much about unless you seek it out, even though it is a subject that scripture speaks of often.

Wednesday Night Bible Study

We have been going through a study on Spiritual Disciplines from Richard J. Foster’s Celebration of Discipline at North Boulevard Christian Church. For those that haven’t been able to attend, yet want to participate, I am going to be positing my notes here each week. We are actually through the first section of the study, the Inward Disciplines, as we talked through the last of the four this evening. So for this first post, I will be posting all four sets of notes from this study.

Our Most Important Election, Ever?

Hey friends of Thoughts from a Crosseyed Jesus Freak. I haven’t posted a lot of thoughts on here recently, but I have a few that have built up to the place that I need to share them. So, hopefully that means I’ll be sharing here more regularly, at least for the time being. That being said, let’s jump in.

Our country is divided right now. There is a presidential election taking place in just a few days, it’s being touted as “the most important election in our history”. But is it really? Honestly, if you look back at past elections, many of them were called the most important election ever. It seems that each and every time an election cycle comes around, people freak out and claim that there is more at stake today than ever before.

The problem is that many I’m hearing from, and seeing completely freak out over the election, are fellow Christ followers. Before I go any further, I want to make something clear. I absolutely believe that we should all vote. It is one of the rights that this nation was founded on, and we should all exercise that right whenever we have the opportunity. The other thing I want to stress is I will never tell you WHO you need to vote for. I have my firmly held beliefs, but I don’t feel it is my place to TELL you who or how to vote. What I will say is if you are a Christ follower, then you need to prayerfully consider each and every vote you cast. Pray. Weigh the options. Vote with a clear conscience. And then trust God!

Now back to the issues I am seeing. We’ve basically got a two-party political system, and you have both parties trying to claim that they are in the right. And you’ve got Christ followers on both sides saying that you can’t be a Christ follower and vote the other party. Here’s the thing though. Neither party perfectly encapsulates what we should be as Christ followers. That’s because they are of human origin and will not perfectly fit what should be in the Kingdom of God. There are platforms, policies, and personalities on both sides of the aisle that are very much unlike Christ.

A friend, mentor, and fellow minister, Mike Edmisten, wrote this recently.

“Conservatives struggle with the social demands of Jesus. Liberals struggle with the ethical demands of Jesus. Christians accept the demands of Jesus and struggle with human political philosophies.”


I think that encapsulates what we all should feel as Christ followers. Christ first, human politics a far second. And because of that, we have to remember that no matter who wins this election, God is still King. 

If Biden wins, God is still in control. If Trump wins, God’s got this. God is sovereign, and His will will ultimately play out, no matter who is the President of the United States. Neither Joe Biden or Donald Trump are America’s last hope. No human being is our last hope or salvation. That title belongs to Jesus Christ, and Christ alone. He is our hope. He is our salvation. And only trust and living for Him gives any of us any chance in this messed up world. 

I get it. If your chosen political candidate loses, it might feel like things will get bad. And they might. But GOD’S GOT THIS! He’s in control. He is going to put in place who He wants as President. It may not be what we want or think should happen. But God’s agenda will be done despite how we might mess it up. I say it again. TRUST GOD!

I saw this sermon video four years ago, in the lead up to the Trump/Hillary election. And while there are some dated references to that election, the jest of the sermon fits today very well. It was preached at Ozark Christian College’s chapel service about the sovereignty of God. And I want you to take the time to watch this. Really pay attention to what this man says. Because, again, no matter who is President, God is on the THRONE! Pray, research, vote, by all means. But in the end, trust God. Take some time to watch this sermon.

Easter 2020 Announcements

Hey North Boulevard Christian Church!

We are in the middle of Holy Week; The last week of Jesus’ physical life on earth before going to the cross for our sins. This past Sunday was the day that we call the Triumphal Entry, when Jesus and His disciples came into Jerusalem to celebrate the Passover to the cheers and excitement of the crowd.

But in just a few days, the mood around Jerusalem had shifted. As Jesus and His disciples celebrated the Passover that would soon become known as “the Last Supper”, the Pharisees and the other members of the Sanhedrin had already agreed to pay Judas to betray the Messiah. Of course, they either didn’t understand that He was the Messiah, or they just didn’t care because He was changing things too much.

I wanted to take a few minutes today to encourage you. Spend time with Christ this week, thanking Him, communing with Him, and realizing that the pain, humiliation, and heartbreak He went through during His betrayal, beatings, crucifixion, and death were all for you. He went to the cross because He love you so very much.

I know throughout our country, the Friday after Thanksgiving is known as Black Friday. But I really think an argument could be made for the Friday of Holy Week for being known as the true Black Friday. Hell, Satan, and the world thought that they had won when Jesus died on Friday. The skies around Jerusalem even turned black, and the ground shook. It was Friday…

But Sunday is coming. The day that we celebrate the realization that death has been defeated. The gates of hell have been stormed. Sin has no power anymore, and Satan knows his fate…that is if you know Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior! And it is my hope and prayer that all that hear or read these words already know Him that way, or will come into a saving relationship with Him through baptism and living your life for Him.

I never dreamed that we would be celebrating Easter the way that we are going to be this weekend. As our church buildings sit empty, I can assure you that the grave of Jesus is empty as well. And it has been for 2,000 years…and will be for all of eternity. He has risen, and has opened the door for us to have a relationship with God that our sin had caused to be shut. Praise God!

That being said, I want to tell you a few things about what is going to take place this weekend as we celebrate the Resurrection together, but on our own. I plan on going live on Facebook around 8:00 AM Sunday morning for a short devotional that would have been our Sonrise service. I hope you can plan on joining me for that.

Then, at 11:00 AM, if all goes as planned, we will be premiering a video on our Facebook page (facebook.com/nblvdcc) and my Youtube channel. To access it on Youtube, just go to youtube.com and search Kraig Birchfield. It will include a welcome and announcement time from a special guest, a communion meditation from Chad Logan, and my Easter message. This is a different Easter for me, even if we weren’t having to meet online. I’m doing something I’ve not done before. We are starting a new sermon series this week, and I’m excited to share it with you. I normally end a series on Easter Sunday, but this year, we are beginning a series called “I Wish Jesus Hadn’t Said That”. We’ll be looking at some of the toughest sayings and teachings of Jesus over the next ten weeks.

And I thought it would be fun today to give you a little preview. So, I have included my introduction to our Sunday message for you today. 

Today, we’re celebrating Easter. I never dreamed that we would be doing it in this manner, but let’s not forget why we celebrate in the first place.

Jesus Christ, Son of God, came to live a human life, did so perfectly, and then willingly allowed Himself to be crucified, which is arguably one of the worst ways ever conceived to die, and then three days later rose from the dead, paying the debt for our sin. That’s what we celebrate today, and even with most of the church buildings across this nation empty this morning, we hold out hope because the grave is empty as well!

Here’s the thing that we have to realize. If Jesus really came back from the dead, which I believe with all my heart, then we have to obey what He says. If He didn’t, then we shouldn’t pay any attention to it. That means that we have to listen and apply all that He said to our lives, even the things we find hard or wish He hadn’t said.

If you are joining us today, and you haven’t accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior through baptism and following Him, then I want to encourage you to pay attention to this message. There are going to be some very tough things that we look at this morning, but please stick with me to the end.

I’ve often told people that if I’m not stepping on toes at times, then I’m not really doing my job as a preacher. But that includes me. I often am stepping all over my own toes, because I haven’t gotten all of this perfect myself. So, let’s lace up our metaphorical steel-toed boots, and let’s see where God is taking us today!

Have you ever found yourself reading through the Bible and come across a statement and think to yourself, “Man, I really wish Jesus hadn’t said that?”

I hope that this preview may pique your interest. Share it with others. Invite them to join us, again at 8:00 AM Sunday on Facebook Live for a short devotion, and then either on our Facebook page or my YouTube account at 11:00 AM (or anytime after that).

God Bless and stay healthy!