Colossians 3:14-4:6
- Colossians 3:14-17
- 14 Above all, put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity. 15 And let the peace of Christ, to which you were also called in one body, rule your hearts. And be thankful. 16 Let the word of Christ dwell richly among you, in all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another through psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. 17 And whatever you do, in word or in deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
- To the virtues and the graces, Paul adds one more—what he calls the perfect bond of unity. Love is the binding power which holds the whole Christian body together. The tendency of any body of people is sooner or later to fly apart; love is the one bond which will hold them together in unbreakable fellowship
- Then Paul paints a vivid picture
- And let the peace of Christ, to which you were also called in one body, rule your hearts. Literally what he says is: “Let the peace of Christ be the umpire in your heart”
- He uses a verb from the athletic arena; it is the word that is used of the umpire who settled things in any matter of dispute. If the peace of Jesus is the umpire in anyone’s heart, the, when feelings clash and we are pulled in tow directions at the same time, the decision of Christ will keep us in the way of love, and the Church will remain the one body it is meant to be. The way to right action is to appoint Jesus as the one who decides between the conflicting emotions in our hearts; and, if we accept His decisions, we cannot go wrong
- It is interesting to see that, from the beginning the Church was a singing Church
- It inherited that from the Jews, for the Jewish philosopher Philo tells us that they would often spend the whole night in hymns and songs. One of the earliest descriptions of a church service we possess is that of Pliny, the Roman governor of Bithynia, who sent a report of the activities of the Christians to Trajan, the Roman emperor, in which he said; “They meet at dawn to sing a hymn to Christ as God.”. The gratitude of the Church has always gone up to God in praise and song
- Finally, Paul gives the great principle for living that everything we do or say should be done and said in the name of Jesus
- One of the best tests of any action is: “Can we do it, calling upon the name of Jesus? Can we do it, asking for His help?”
- One of the best tests of any word is: “Can we speak it and in the same breath name the name of Jesus? Can we speak it, remembering that He will hear?”
- If we bring every word and deed to the test of the presence of Jesus Christ, we will not go wrong
- Colossians 3:18-4:1
- 18 Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives and don’t be bitter toward them. 20 Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. 21 Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that they won’t become discouraged. 22 Slaves, obey your human masters in everything. Don’t work only while being watched, as people-pleasers, but work wholeheartedly, fearing the Lord. 23 Whatever you do, do it from the heart, as something done for the Lord and not for people, 24 knowing that you will receive the reward of an inheritance from the Lord. You serve the Lord Christ. 25 For the wrongdoer will be paid back for whatever wrong he has done, and there is no favoritism. Masters, deal with your slaves justly and fairly, since you know that you too have a Master in heaven.
- Here, the ethical part of the letter becomes more and more practical. Paul turns to the workin out of Christianity in the everyday relationships of life and living. Before we begin to study the passage in some detail, we must note two great general principles which lie behind it and determine all its demands
- The Christians ethic is an ethic of mutual obligation. It is never an ethic on which all the duties are on one side
- As Paul saw it, husbands have as great an obligation as wives; parents have just as binding a duty as children; masters have their responsibilities as much as slaves
- Under Jewish law, a woman was a thing, the possession of her husband, just as much as his house, his flocks, or his possessions. She had no legal rights whatever. For instance, a husband could divorce his wife for any cause, while a wife had no rights at all in the initiation of divorce; and the only grounds on which a divorce might be awarded her were if her husband developed leprosy, gave up his beliefs, or sexually assaulted a virgin
- In Greek society, a respectable woman lived a life of entire seclusion. She never appeared on the streets alone, not even to go shopping. She lived in the women’s apartments and did not join the men of the household, even for meals. Complete servitude and chastity were demanded of her; but her husband could go out as much as he chose and could enter into as many relationships outside marriage as he liked without incurring any social criticism. Under both Jewish and Greek laws and custom, all the privileges belonged to the husband and all the duties to the wife
- In the ancient world, children were very much under the domination of their parents
- The supreme example was the Roman patria potestas, the law of the father’s power. Under it, a father could do anything he liked with his children. He could sell them into slavery’ he could make them work like laborers on his farm; he even had the right to condemn a child to death and to carry out the execution. All the privileges and rights belonged to the parent and all the duties to the children
- Most of all, this was the case in slavery
- The slave was a thing in the eyes of the law. There was no such thing as a code of working conditions. When slaves were too old to work, they could be thrown out to die. Slaves did not even have the right to marry; and if they cohabited and children were born, the children belonged to the master, just as the lambs of the flock belonged to the shepherd. Once again, all the rights belonged to the master and all the duties to the slaves
- The Christian ethic is one of mutual obligation, in which the rights and the obligations rest with every individual. It is an ethic of mutual responsibility; and, therefore, it becomes an ethic where the thought of privilege and rights falls into the background and where the thought of duty and obligation takes priority. The whole direction of the Christian ethic is not to ask; “What do others owe me?” But “What do I owe others?”
- As Paul saw it, husbands have as great an obligation as wives; parents have just as binding a duty as children; masters have their responsibilities as much as slaves
- The really new thing about the Christian ethic of personal relationships is that all relationships are in the Lord
- The whole of the Christian life is lived in Christ. In any home, the tone of personal relationships must be dictated by the awareness that Jesus is an unseen but ever present guest. In any parent child relationship, the dominating thought must be the Fatherhood of God; and we must try to treat our children as God treats His sons and daughters. The thing which settles any relationship is that we are all servants of the one Master, Jesus Christ. The new thing about personal relationships in Christianity is that Jesus Christ is introduced into them all
- The Christians ethic is an ethic of mutual obligation. It is never an ethic on which all the duties are on one side
- Let’s look briefly at each of these three spheres of human relationships
- Marriage
- The wife is to bee submissive to her husband; but the husband is to love his wife and treat her with kindness. The practical effect of the marriage laws and customs of ancient times was that the husband became an unquestioned dictator and the wife little more than a servant to bring up his children and to minister to his needs
- The fundamental effect of this Christian teaching is that marriage becomes a partnership. It becomes something which is entered into not merely for the convenience of the husband, but in order that both husband and wife may find a new joy and a new completeness in each other. Any marriage in which everything is done for the convenience of one of the partners and where the other exists simply to gratify the needs and desires of the first is not a Christian marriage
- Parent/Child
- The Christian ethic lays down the duty of children to respect the parental relationship. But there is always a problem in the relationship of parent and child. If the parents are too easy going, their children will grow up undisciplined and unfit to face life. But there is a contrary danger. The more conscientious parents are, the more likely it is that they will always be correcting and rebuking their children. Simply because they want their children to do well, they are always on top of them
- We remember the moving statement of John Newton: “I know that my father loved me—but he did not seem to wish me to see it.” There is a certain kind of constant criticism which is the product of misguided love
- The danger of all this is that children may become discouraged. It is one of the tragic facts of religious history that Martin Luther’s father was so stern to him that, all his life, Luther found it difficult to pray; “Our Father.” The word father in his mind represented nothing but severity. The duty of the parent is discipline, but it is also encouragement. Luther himself said: “Spare the rod and spoil the child. It is true. But beside the rod keep an apple to give him when he does well.”
- The better parents are, the more they must avoid the danger of discouraging their children, for they must give discipline and encouragement in equal parts
- Slave/Master
- It will be noted here that this section is far longer than the other two; and its length may well be due to long talks which Paul had with the runaway slave, Onesimus, whom he later sent back to his master Philemon
- Paul says things which must have amazed both sides. He insists that slaves must be conscientious workers. He is in effect saying that their Christianity must make them better and more efficient slaves. Christianity never offered escape from hard work in this world; it makes us able to work still harder. Nor does it offer a way of escape from difficult situations; it enables us to meet these situations better
- Slaves must not be content with what might be called eye service; They must not work only when the supervisor is watching them. They must not be the kind of servants that don’t dust behind the ornaments or sweep below the wardrobe. They must remember that they will receive their inheritance
- Here was an amazing idea. Under Roman law, slaves could not possess any property, and here they are being promised nothing less than the inheritance of GOd. They must remember that the time will come when the balance is adjusted, and evildoing will find its punishment and faithful diligence its reward
- The masters must treat the slaves not like objects, but like people, with justice and with the fairness which goes beyond justice
- How is it to be done? The answer is important, for in it there is the whole Christian doctrine of work
- Workers must do everything as if they were doing it for Christ. We do not work for pay, ambition, or to satisfy an earthly employer; we work so that we can take every task and offer it to Christ. All work is done for God so that His world may go on and His men and women have the things they need for life and living
- Employers must remember that they too have a Master—Christ in heaven. They are answerable to God, just as the workforce is answerable to them. No employer can say; “This is my business and I will do what I like with it,” but rather; “This is God’s business. He has put me in charge of it. I am responsible to Him.”
- The Christian doctrine of work is that employer and employee are both working for God, and that, therefore, the real rewards of work are not assessable in earthly values, but will some day be given—or withheld—by God
- Marriage
- Here, the ethical part of the letter becomes more and more practical. Paul turns to the workin out of Christianity in the everyday relationships of life and living. Before we begin to study the passage in some detail, we must note two great general principles which lie behind it and determine all its demands
- Colossians 4:2-4
- 2 Devote yourselves to prayer; stay alert in it with thanksgiving. 3 At the same time, pray also for us that God may open a door to us for the word, to speak the mystery of Christ, for which I am in chains, 4 so that I may make it known as I should.
- Paul would never write a letter without urging the duty and privilege of prayer on his friends. He tells them to persevere in prayer. Even for the best of us, there come times when prayer seems to be unproductive and pointless, and to penetrate no further than the walls of the room in which we pray. At such a time, the remedy is not to stop but to go on praying; for in those who pray, spiritual dryness cannot last
- He tells them to be vigilant in prayer
- Literally, the Greek means to be wakeful. The phrase could well mean that Paul was thinking of the time on the Mount of Transfiguration when the disciples fell asleep and only when they were awake again saw the glory. Or maybe he was thinking of that time in the Garden of Gethsemane when Jesus prayed and His disciples slept. It is true that, at the end of a hard day, sleep often comes upon us when we try to pray. And very often there is in our prayers a kind of tiredness
- At such a time, we should not try to pray for very long: God will understand the single sentence uttered in the manner of a child too tired to stay awake
- Paul asks for their prayers for himself
- We must not carefully exactly what it is that Paul asks for. He asks for their prayer not so much for himself as for his work. There were many things for which Paul might have asked them to pray—release from prison, a successful outcome to his coming trial, a little rest and peace. But he asks them to pray only that strength and opportunity my be given to him to do the work which God had sent him into the world to do
- When we pray for ourselves and for others, we should ask not for release from any task, but rather for strength to complete the task which has been given us to do. Prayer should always be for power and seldom for release; for conquest, not release, must be the keynote of the Christian life
- Colossians 4:5-6
- 5 Act wisely toward outsiders, making the most of the time. 6 Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you should answer each person.
- Here are three brief instructions for the lives of Christians in the world
- Christians must behave themselves with wisdom and with tact towards those who are outside the Church
- They must of necessity be missionaries, but they must know when and when not to speak to others about their beliefs. They must never give the impression of superiority and of overcritical criticism
- Few people have ever been argued into Christianity. Christians, therefore, must remember that it is not so much by their words as by their lives that they will attract people to, or repel them from, Christianity. On Christians is laid the great responsibility of showing Christ to others in their daily lives
- Christians must be on the look-out for opportunity
- They must seize every possible opportunity to work for Christ and to serve others. Daily life and work are continually offering us opportunities to witness for Christ and to influence people for Him—but there are so many who avoid the opportunities instead of embracing them. The Church is constantly offering its members the opportunity to teach, to sing, to visit, to work for the good of the Christian congregation—and there are so many who deliberately refuse these opportunities instead of accepting them. Christians should always be on the loo-out of the opportunity to serve Christ and others
- Christians must have charm and wit in what they say so that they may know how to give the right answer in every case
- Here is an interesting instruction. It is all too true that Christianity in the minds of many is connected with a kind of sanctimonious dullness and an outlook in which laughter is almost a heresy. This is a warning not to confuse loyal godliness with graceless insipidity. Christians must commend their message with the charm and the wit which were in Jesus Himself. There is too much of the Christianity which stodgily depresses people and too little of the Christianity which sparkles with life
- Christians must behave themselves with wisdom and with tact towards those who are outside the Church
- Here are three brief instructions for the lives of Christians in the world

